A Better Way Of Life | Better Stories, Better Conversations
A free community built around stories, questions and real conversation

Tell better stories.
Have better conversations.
Keep your voice.

Most people do not need more content. They need help finding the story worth telling and the confidence to say it in a way that sounds like them. Join A Better Way Of Life free, meet the people and bring the unfinished thought. Pay only when you want a course, working session or more direct help from Graham.

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Better stories without manufactured polish
Real conversations online and in the room
Use AI when it helps, not when it replaces you
Graham Coath, founder of A Better Way Of Life
Graham Coath Conversation host. Story finder. Occasional challenger.
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Weekly
live sessions online
700+
musician conversations hosted
7 years
of daily questions on LinkedIn
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The community is free. Your next step is your choice.

You should not have to pay £50 just to find out whether these are your people. Join Heartbeat free, look around and take part. Pay only when you want a session, a course or regular access to everything.

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Meet members, join conversations, see what is coming up and get a feel for A Better Way Of Life without committing to a monthly payment.

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  • A room without algorithmic noise or vanity metrics
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Perhaps one subject matters right now, or you simply want to try a session before considering membership. Book only what is useful to you from inside Heartbeat.

  • Weekly online networking sessions
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  • How to use AI without losing your voice
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What happens inside

Bring the unfinished thought. Leave with something worth saying.

Live online rooms built around conversation, curiosity and practical help—not another pile of content waiting to make you feel guilty.

Weekly online networking

Meet people without having to perform at them.

Useful conversation, genuine introductions and the chance to understand what other members do. No noisy feed. No vanity numbers. No expectation that everyone arrives with a pitch.

How to use AI without losing your voice

Bring the task that is eating your time.

We take a real task and work out how AI can help without flattening your personality or turning the result into something that could have been written by anybody. Sessions are recorded and made available through the course area if you cannot attend live.

Stories, visibility and communication

Find the interesting bit you have stopped noticing.

Courses and working sessions to help you recognise the stories hiding inside your experience, communicate them with confidence and create conversations rather than simply adding more content to the feed.

What working with Graham feels like

People arrive asking about content. The conversation usually goes deeper.

"Working with Graham has been one of those rare experiences that genuinely shifts how you show up. He asks the kind of questions that make you think differently, stretch your perspective, and ultimately communicate with more confidence and authenticity."
Tasha Astill — Business Growth Manager, UCS College Group
"Before I spoke to you, I was looking at promoting my profiles in a fairly narrow way, but you showed me that the process can be a lot more diverse and even... fun. Who could have expected that!"
Elena Marto — English Communication Coach
"He shared clear, concrete ideas that made the whole thing feel a lot less overwhelming. It wasn't about chasing trends but about finding ways to show up more intentionally and connect with the right people."
Florence Tyloo — Dementia Engagement Specialist
"Graham looked over my LinkedIn profile, asked me about my business and then picked out my unique selling point and walked me through how to showcase it. I made so many notes that I can't wait to implement."
Samantha Lynas — Spiritual COO for Visionary CEOs
"He helped me reconnect with the social strategy I need to kick-start my business. It feels exciting to return to my social strategy with renewed clarity and purpose."
Rachel Ballantyne — Founder, Edify Tutoring
"What sets him apart is his zero-BS approach — he cuts through the noise and gets to the heart of what matters, ensuring that strategy aligns with your goals without unnecessary jargon or fluff."
Marilyn Rixhon — Wellbeing in Care Coach
More from A Better Way Of Life

The community is the front door. It is not the whole building.

These parts of Graham's work have their own spaces, so you can explore them without losing the simple route into the free community.

In person

London Leadership Events

Small, facilitated rooms for the leadership conversations organisations are thinking about but rarely having. No keynote speakers, slides or sales pitches.

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The book

And In Poll Position

What seven years of daily LinkedIn polls taught Graham about curiosity, consistency and the human complexity that refuses to fit into four small boxes.

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For organisations

Leadership conversations at work

Facilitated in-company conversations built around what your organisation is dealing with now, rather than another generic training day.

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Listen to Graham

MyMusic Podcast

More than 700 conversations with musicians about the lives, ideas and experiences behind the music. Less promotion, more curiosity — and another side of Graham's approach to human communication.

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No payment. No awkward commitment.

Your story does not need more polish. It needs somewhere to be heard.

Join A Better Way Of Life free. Bring your questions, stories and unfinished ideas. Take part in the conversation, then choose pay as you go or monthly membership only when you want more direct help.